Friendship

The river and the mountain is easier than change our behavior.
What we experienced for the friend sometimes provoking and exhausting, but it is that makes the value of friendship, have a beautiful.
Friendship often overlooking some temptation, but sincere friendship can overcome even a trial that grew together.
The friendship was not established automatically but needed the process that was long as the iron sharpened the iron, so the friend sharpened his friend.
The friendship was influenced with various experiences liked and the sorrow, was entertained and hurt, was paid attention to and disappointed, was heard and ignored, was helped and refused, but all this never deliberate was carried out with the aim of hatred.
A friend will not hide the mistake to avoid the dispute, precisely because of giving him he summoned up courage reprimanded the way it is.
The friend had not wrapped the blow in the kiss, but stated what was very painful with the aim of his friend of wanting to change.
The process from the friend became the friend needed maintenance efforts from loyalty, but not when we needed new help we had the motivation looked for attention, help and the love statement from the other person, but precisely he took the initiative of giving and bringing about what was needed by his friend.
His yearning was to become part of the life of his friend, because of not having the friendship that was preceeded with the egoistic attitude.
Everyone must need the true friend, but not everyone succeeded in getting him. Many also the person who enjoyed the beauty of the friendship, but was also that like that was destroyed because of being betrayed by his friend.
But the destroyer of this friendship succeeded in being broken by friends who were tested by the authenticity motivasin him.
Had one true friend more valuable than one thousand friends who considered himself important.
n the glory period, friends knew us. In the suffering, we knew our friends. Remembered when the last time you were in the difficulty. Who that was by you?? . Whoever loved you when you felt you were not loved??
Whoever wanted together you at the time of not any that could be given by you?? . They your friends.
Appreciated and maintained always your friendship with them. Because a friend could be closer than relatives personally.
Abu Ja’far bin Babawaith As Sijistani said:
"A king had written to the king of the other country, How did you arrange your kingdom and governed your people?"
The king of the country answered, "with eight methods: did not joke when governing and banned, did not violate even one promises and the threat, punished was based on the mistake not had a basis spite, appointed the official was based on the skill not was based on the wish, persuaded the heart of the people and did not force, facilitated permission not because of the weakness, provided the foodstuff evenly and avoided excessive matters".
Plato said, "Someone might not come to a city before he knew three matters about the city: his king was just, his minister was expert and his judge was holy".
Someone asked Iskandar: "Why didn't you keep the wealth like that was carried out by the kings?" Iskandar replied, "friends and my soldiers were my wealth wealth. I kept the wealth in themselves, not in the land that far from them. The wealth that took care of me better than the wealth that was maintained by me. The land could not help I, the soldier that could help I".
Iskandar asked to filosof India: "Why the regulation and regulations in your country very few?" They explained, "Because we carried out the obligation on the basis of our awareness personally, and because of our king's justice to us".
Diogenes said, "A wise captain will not be useful if his sailors were not expert. A good leader will not be useful if the minister for his minister was not good".
Only stupid fish that twice could be hit by the fish hook with same bait.
Did not have the aim was more frightening compared with not achieving the aim.
The brave feeling came from the frightened feeling that was hidden very deep.